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Suffocation and to put in the throat - the importance of understanding the difference

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Do you get nervous when your baby chokes? Watching your baby choke during a meal can be uncomfortable as a parent. But choking is a natural reflex and part of a baby's development as they learn to eat solid foods. Here, we'll go over the difference between choking and gagging, and how you can create safe meals for your baby.

Why is it good to be able to tell the difference between gagging and gagging?

When you can see the difference between these two phenomena, you can also see the difference between danger and “no danger”. It gives you both peace and security, and it gives the child a more stress-free meal. Both you and the child benefit from it. In addition, if you know when to act, you also know when NOT to act. So you should not pat yourself on the back if it is not necessary, then you can create a dangerous situation out of a harmless situation.

Concepts to know

  • Choking, retching, gagging: Gagging is a reflex that pushes food forward into the mouth when it is too large to swallow. It is an important safety mechanism to prevent food from getting stuck in the throat.

  • Cough: Coughing is the body's way of reacting when something goes wrong in the windpipe. Babies have good cough reflexes that help them solve the problem themselves.

  • Sore throat and airway obstruction: If a piece of food gets stuck in the trachea, it can cause airway obstruction and choking.

What is the difference between gagging and gagging?

Choking and choking are two different things. Choking is a reflex that helps prevent food from going too far back into the mouth and windpipe. When a child chokes, the child may make noises and is usually unresponsive afterward. However, when a child truly chokes (and experiences airway obstruction), the child becomes quiet, may turn a white/bluish color to the face, show signs of panic, and have difficulty breathing. This requires prompt management of airway obstruction to prevent choking.

This is what nausea can look like

A choking sensation can manifest itself in several different ways. Watch the video to see what a choking sensation can look like.

Why do children choke?

The gag reflex in children is much more sensitive than in adults and can be triggered more easily when food comes into contact with the trigger point of the reflex. It is the body's way of protecting the child while they learn to eat.


Regurgitation is common when children begin to explore solid foods and is a completely normal part of the learning to eat process. Over time, the trigger point moves back into the mouth, and the regurgitation decreases. The regurgitation moves the food forward in the mouth so that the child can restart chewing or spit the food out.

"When your child is choking, the child is working with the food. That's a good thing. Try praising the child when the child is choking, see it as something positive."

How to deal with nausea?

It is important to understand that vomiting is a normal part of your baby's feeding journey.Letting the child resolve the situation on their own, as long as the child can make sounds and seems comfortable, is usually the best and safest approach. You should not pat the child on the back or put your fingers in their mouth if they are choking or coughing.


Creating a calm and safe environment for meals can also help reduce the risk of the child becoming scared or anxious during meals.

Children who are given finger foods learn to vomit less than other children

An interesting study on BLW and finger foods showed that children who ate according to BLW choked more at 6 months, but less at 8-9 months because they developed more control and coordination early on when it comes to moving food around the mouth.


This may be an indication that babies who are given the opportunity to work with pieces of food early in their feeding journey develop oral motor skills more quickly than those who are spoon-fed puree.

Is there a greater risk of choking with finger foods than with purees?

It may be easy to assume that it is easier to choke on finger foods/pieces of food than on purees and mashed foods. However, the fact is that the studies done on this do not show a higher risk with BLW and finger foods.


Of course, it's about serving safe food that is adapted to the child's age and motor abilities, but generally speaking, the risk is not greater.


Brown A. (2018) No difference in self-reported frequency of choking between infants introduced to solid foods using a baby-led weaning or traditional spoon-feeding approach. J Hum Nutr Diet.

Fangupo LJ, Heath AM, Williams SM, Erickson Williams LW, Morison BJ, Fleming EA, Taylor BJ, Wheeler BJ, Taylor RW. (2016) A Baby-Led Approach to Eating Solids and Risk of Choking. Pediatrics.


Is it dangerous when a baby bites off a large piece of food?

Well, generally not. Babies haven't learned what a proper bite is yet. Or have the motor skills to bite off bite-sized bites. Some children also like food very much and like to put a lot of food in their mouths for that reason.

It can be scary to watch as a parent when your baby has a mouth full of food. Many people are afraid that your baby will bite off a large piece and choke on it, but the fact is that big bites don't automatically mean your baby will choke on it.

  • Large pieces of food trigger the chewing reflex in the mouth more easily. So with a little patience, the baby can often chew the piece of food down.
  • If the piece of food becomes too difficult for the baby to handle, it will likely come back out (either by being spat out or swallowed).
  • The swallowing reflex can also be triggered, which means the baby can swallow the piece even if it is not chewed enough. This is not dangerous.
  • Remember that we have two passages in our throat, a windpipe and an esophagus. Just because the child bites off a large piece doesn't mean it will end up in the wrong throat. It takes more than that for the piece to end up in the wrong place.

If your child bites off a piece of food that is difficult to handle, it is best to sit close to the child and stick out your tongue and place your hand in front of the child's mouth. Stay calm and try to get the child to spit it out on their own. Try to avoid putting your fingers in the child's mouth as this can make the situation worse.


Of course, safety also concerns the consistency of the food, it should be soft enough for the baby to mash it in their mouth. Otherwise, both small and large pieces are risky, if it is too hard.

How should you act as a parent?

Understanding the difference between choking and gagging is important in creating a safe and secure eating environment for your child. With knowledge and caution, you can help your child explore food safely and promote their independence and development.

How to create a safe meal

Four points that can help you as a parent create a safe environment for your child and feel more secure during mealtime.

  • Monitor the child
    Always supervise your child during meals so that you can act quickly if necessary.

  • Avoid choking hazards
    Do not give your child food that could pose a choking hazard, such as round and hard pieces of food.

  • Create a calm environment
    Sit with your child during meals and avoid feeding them while they are moving. The risk of choking increases significantly when children are moving and eating at the same time.
  • Learn CPR for children
    Knowing what to do if something gets stuck in your child's windpipe and basic CPR (cardiopulmonary resuscitation) for children is an important precaution to be able to act quickly and correctly in any emergency situations.

Elin Oresten Knatteplock

/Elin Oresten

Lic. nutritionist and founder of Knatteplock.

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Children love to imitate, by eating the same food it facilitates learning and makes mealtime a positive experience of togetherness. As a parent you don't have to feed but can sit next to and enjoy the food.

Picking food gives children the opportunity to explore a variety of textures and consistencies at their own pace. This can lead to a healthier relationship with food and a greater enjoyment of eating. By offering different textures and flavors, the child gets a broader taste palette, and there is a greater chance that the appetite will continue even during the naturally picky period that usually comes around two years. Research shows that children who are introduced to a more varied diet from the start eat more variety and more vegetables later in life.

  • Promotes exploration and independence at mealtime.
  • Develops early chewing skills.
  • Simplifies family meals and strengthens community.

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Common questions about picking food

Finger food is a way of offering food where the baby/child eats themselves either with their hands or with a spoon.

Finger foods give children the opportunity to explore a variety of textures and consistencies at their own pace, from an early age. This can lead to a healthier relationship with food and greater enjoyment of eating.

Make sure your baby shows signs of being ready for solid foods. She should be able to sit up in a chair on her own, be able to bring objects to her mouth on her own, and show an interest in food. Maybe your baby is reaching for your food or looking at your plate with fascination, then there is probably interest!

Consider offering foods that are fairly soft but easy to grasp. For example, sweet potato sticks, slices of liver pâté, cooked broccoli or omelette/pancake strips. Sandwiches with butter and/or liver pâté are also perfect for practicing motor skills. Slippery foods that are difficult to grasp can be rolled in seeds or sandwich crumbs. For example, avocado or banana. But in general, it is good to offer the baby what the rest of the family eats as often as possible.

Small babies don't have a pincer grip so it's big pieces that matter at first. The pieces should be longer than the palm of their hand because small babies (6 months) often can't open their palm on request. It may feel scary but it's actually safer with bigger pieces than smaller pieces when it's a small baby! If they take too big bites they spit it out again.

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Many people worry about how their children will be able to chew finger foods without teeth. The good news is that it goes very well. Young children process food with their tongue, palate and toothless jaws.

Children only get molars when they are a little older (over 1 year old) and waiting to introduce solid foods until then can have negative consequences for the child's eating development.

Children don't learn to chew by eating puree, they learn to chew by practicing chewing different textures in their mouths.

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